How to fall in love with yourself… the narrow and strait path to happiness

Why? Why would you want to love yourself?
When you love yourself: you love your life. And that is the closest we know to be a happy person.

And you want to be happy, right? It feels like your birthright. Even though I can’t specifically point at anyone who is happy… it IS your birthright.

Birthright or not birthright, we all want to be happy… even though no one has been able to explain how to become happy… so it seems that it will remain a desire… never to be fulfilled. Hope and hopeless… or resigned is our dominant state.

The closest experience to happiness is contentment, with life, with yourself.
When you love yourself you love your life… but how can you?

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One model for a satisfying life is the battery. Because how you do anything is how you do everything!

If you suck the last little bit of energy out of your battery and then charge it, next day it will give you a little more… ((I just read that this is not true for all types of batteries… well, it is true for most people…)

But if you suck the energy sparingly, if you are more worried about the battery than about building something with the energy… at the end of the day energy is left in the battery.

You charge it overnight, and next day the battery will show full, but its full is only the 70% you used the day before…

And little by little, your sparing the battery attitude, your stinginess leaves you with hardly any energy to get things done, to think, to dream, to imagine, to be creative.

This is how life works.

The energy-loss, the loss of vibrancy, capacity loss can be gradually reversed…

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Back into light… The counter cultural way to become your higher self, no matter where you are.

Living in the three levels of value, the systemic, the extrinsic, and the intrinsic, lived fully, and balanced, is the secret to the good life.

The Indian sages, including the Buddha, skipped the extrinsic. They taught people not to live there. They had a disdain for it.

But work is on the extrinsic level, making money is on that level, so skipping it means living a life of charity. Living a life where you cannot value another person on all levels… because you don’t value the values of that level.
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Life skills, capacity, talent, desire, ambition, greed defined… can you manifest with what you have?

OK… this is the continuation of the WWII article…

In that I talk about Hitler and look at what was the issue that caused him losing the war in Russia… So I am repeating what I said there…
Hitler: 10 capacities working. Enough to come to power. Enough to dupe millions and millions. But not enough to create and execute a winning strategy of war. Impatient, jumping around, making blunders. Also: he didn’t see the big picture… his greed blinded him.

Believing his own interpretation of things, he fires his decision making experts… and loses the war.

What capacity was missing? System, process, resilience, flexibility, and astute. And definitely missing the big picture.
Brings it down to human level, doesn’t it?

So what is a skill, what is a capacity, what is a talent?

And what is Life Force, what is desire, ambition, and greed?

These are the questions I have been pondering, muscle testing, and answering on my current level of knowledge next.

And the last question is: could we call these capacities life skills?

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The third thinking brain… immersion: the secret to mastery of life and growth

The first thinking brain, the genes driven brain creates a life of reactivity, full of fear, full of anxiety, full of sharp turns and devastating jerks. I’ve lived there… and I hated it.

The second thinking brain, the one that evaluates, reasons, figures stuff out, is slow and plodding, and hard work. Creates real solutions, keeps you out of trouble… but not really fun.

And then there is the third thinking brain… the work of thinking is done in the background, on the back burner, while the foreground is silent, resting, or busy learning something new..

That is where I live now.

I am getting a few questions about that, and I decided to tell you as much as I can see… the mechanism is largely hidden from my view… It is in the background…

I’ll use myself, and clients’ and students’ stuff as illustrations…

In the past month I saw more maturing, more “going to the next level” than I had seen in all my career as a coach.

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Your vibration is an indicator to what degree you use force, forcefulness, and forcing… including resisting!

Animals are not forceful. Plants are not forceful. Why? Because, while the selfish gene is quite forceful, the animals surrender to the selfish gene… and go “with” it.

Humans are animals with a mind… and the mind is forceful. More forceful than the selfish gene…

The selfish gene is clear on what it wants: it wants to increase itself in the gene pool. That is all it is interested in. It negotiates with nature, with other species, with toxins, with members of the same species continually to lead to evolutionary stable strategies…. ess in short. It adapts or it dies. The more adaptable, the more aware the gene and the vehicle, the more successful the gene is in propagating itself, and it thrives. It cannot afford to be forceful: forceful comes from blindness, and the repercussions is extinction. Forceful means: unaware and uncaring…

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You live in a world of your own design… You don’t like the design?

You live in a world of your own design

But how do you build a world of your own design?

Everyone hopes that this sentence “you live in a world of your own design” means that you can change your life.

But the sentence means: you have the world that you have designed. You built it. brick by brick. Anxiety by anxiety. By self-limitation or self-indulgence. By lack of self-worth, self-esteem, lack of any knowledge, lack of any values… or by delusion… yeah, YOU built it. Not ever considering the consequences of your actions.

You built it to be a tiny cage: secure enough so you can feel safer, that you can feel not too much for you to deal with it, tight enough to feel trapped.

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People who say the whole truth was revealed to them are lying. Even if their name was Moses…

The nature of “revelation” is that you get a glimpse beyond the veil, then the veil closes.

People who talk about “grand” revelations are filling in the gaps in sight and memory with their imagination, that is why most things you read have a very low truth value. 1%-10%… very few over 20%.

So what is the process that allows revelation to create a system of higher truth value?

My experience has been that experimentation, using the fresh and dramatic information as a starting point, you start to poke the edges of the unknown and get little bits of new information. Thus you enlarged the “hole” but not with your imagination, but with truth.

This is my method. It takes time, it takes creativity, it takes all I got. And it takes willing participants who are willing for me to experiment with them.

Offering to find the perfect activators that would make the soul correction 100 times easier is one of those.

An hour to two hours worth of work, looking, poking, muscle testing, allowing the whole picture to unfold… Yesterday I was in bed by 9 pm… I was so tired.

And today won’t be any different.

One of the most dramatic insights I had is this:

Even though seeing value, one or all the three levels of value, everywhere, in everyone, is the fastest way to peace of mind, happiness, joy, AND RAISING YOUR VIBRATION, people don’t see value.

The three levels of value are

systemic

extrinsic

intrinsic

Systemic value is a binary switch, stupid/smart, right/wrong, valid/invalid. 100% of people see this type of value.

Extrinsic value is what you can buy for money. It is the basis of commerce, and unfortunately the basis of relationships. About 80% of people see this type of value fully.

When you are needy, you are needy for extrinsic value: safety, comfort, tasty, enjoyable, warm, fun, etc.

Intrinsic value, that comes with being what one is, is the least appreciated. Less than 1% of people see this type of value, including in themselves.

So what, you could say

So what, you could say, but what you don’t see, because you are part of the 99% who can’t see, that unless you see value in another, and in yourself, you can’t have access to love, to compassion, to gratitude, to appreciation, to peace, to happiness, to fulfillment, because all of these (and more) need this capacity, the capacity to seeing value, to be active.

Inactively it’s been there forever, but historically one person each age had it activated. All of them thought other people were are like themselves… but people may look like you, but they are not like you.

Not inside. Not on the DNA level.

Teaching love, appreciation, acceptance, allowing to people without the capacity being activated, is like trying to teach a pig to fly.

You will only annoy the pig, and the pig will never fly. Why? Because the ability to fly is a capacity.

Capacities get activated two ways:

through extreme suffering

activated by a

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