To what degree do you fulfill others’ expectations of you?

I had an experience this morning that made me look and made me ponder.

The number of times my site is recommended by google has dropped to one third in the past two-three months.

I wasn’t sure why… so yesterday they told me: it is because I am not getting any visitors from Pinterest. That is weird… why would I want get any visitors from Pinterest, and if I did… what would they want on my site? I don’t sell clothes, pretty nick-knacks… that is what Pinterest users want, right? Pretty stuff…

So I looked up my stats software and I found that I had 51 visitors from Pinterest. They stayed anywhere from 1 second to 3 seconds, meaning: they weren’t interested in what I have to offer, not in the least.

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Self-image… the lies, the misunderstanding, the delusions… Can you change it?

Let us not confuse ourselves by failing to recognize that there are two kinds of self-confidence — one: a trait of personality and another: that comes from knowledge of a subject. It is no particular credit to the educator to help build the first without building the second. The objective of education is not the production of self-confident fools.” ~ Albert Bandura, Self Efficacy: The Exercise of Control, p.65

When I ask a person about their self-image, they have a different image of themselves consciously than on the first brain unconscious level.

Here are a few examples:Back in 1987 my conscious self-image, the one I promoted, was that I was very smart. My unconscious, automatic self-image was that I was a failure, or more precisely, a failure waiting to happen.

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Life skills, capacity, talent, desire, ambition, greed defined… can you manifest with what you have?

OK… this is the continuation of the WWII article…

In that I talk about Hitler and look at what was the issue that caused him losing the war in Russia… So I am repeating what I said there…
Hitler: 10 capacities working. Enough to come to power. Enough to dupe millions and millions. But not enough to create and execute a winning strategy of war. Impatient, jumping around, making blunders. Also: he didn’t see the big picture… his greed blinded him.

Believing his own interpretation of things, he fires his decision making experts… and loses the war.

What capacity was missing? System, process, resilience, flexibility, and astute. And definitely missing the big picture.
Brings it down to human level, doesn’t it?

So what is a skill, what is a capacity, what is a talent?

And what is Life Force, what is desire, ambition, and greed?

These are the questions I have been pondering, muscle testing, and answering on my current level of knowledge next.

And the last question is: could we call these capacities life skills?

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Donald Trump: soul correction, vibration. overall intelligence… the other side of The Donald

Soul correction… if it is accurate and really something recognizable, then you should be able to tell someone’s soul correction without knowing their birth date.

Of course you need to know the person well.

This is exactly what happened this morning.

I found an email in my inbox recommending an article on what Tony Schwartz, Donald Trump’s “The Art of The Deal” book’s ghostwriter has to say now that the Republican’s make Donald Trump their presidential candidate. Donald Trump: personal vibration: 70. Number of spiritual capacities: 4, overall intelligence, including emotional and spiritual intelligence: 30. For contrast: Adolph Hitler: personal vibration: 100. spiritual capacities: 4. overall intelligence: 50.

I am only halfway in the article, and it is already clear: Donald Trump is the archetype of a bombastic liar, a delusional self-aggrandizing sociopath… The soul correction of “Finish What You Start”.

Obviously each soul correction is a scale… where the correction is done to one degree or another.

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People who say the whole truth was revealed to them are lying. Even if their name was Moses…

The nature of “revelation” is that you get a glimpse beyond the veil, then the veil closes.

People who talk about “grand” revelations are filling in the gaps in sight and memory with their imagination, that is why most things you read have a very low truth value. 1%-10%… very few over 20%.

So what is the process that allows revelation to create a system of higher truth value?

My experience has been that experimentation, using the fresh and dramatic information as a starting point, you start to poke the edges of the unknown and get little bits of new information. Thus you enlarged the “hole” but not with your imagination, but with truth.

This is my method. It takes time, it takes creativity, it takes all I got. And it takes willing participants who are willing for me to experiment with them.

Offering to find the perfect activators that would make the soul correction 100 times easier is one of those.

An hour to two hours worth of work, looking, poking, muscle testing, allowing the whole picture to unfold… Yesterday I was in bed by 9 pm… I was so tired.

And today won’t be any different.

One of the most dramatic insights I had is this:

Even though seeing value, one or all the three levels of value, everywhere, in everyone, is the fastest way to peace of mind, happiness, joy, AND RAISING YOUR VIBRATION, people don’t see value.

The three levels of value are

systemic

extrinsic

intrinsic

Systemic value is a binary switch, stupid/smart, right/wrong, valid/invalid. 100% of people see this type of value.

Extrinsic value is what you can buy for money. It is the basis of commerce, and unfortunately the basis of relationships. About 80% of people see this type of value fully.

When you are needy, you are needy for extrinsic value: safety, comfort, tasty, enjoyable, warm, fun, etc.

Intrinsic value, that comes with being what one is, is the least appreciated. Less than 1% of people see this type of value, including in themselves.

So what, you could say

So what, you could say, but what you don’t see, because you are part of the 99% who can’t see, that unless you see value in another, and in yourself, you can’t have access to love, to compassion, to gratitude, to appreciation, to peace, to happiness, to fulfillment, because all of these (and more) need this capacity, the capacity to seeing value, to be active.

Inactively it’s been there forever, but historically one person each age had it activated. All of them thought other people were are like themselves… but people may look like you, but they are not like you.

Not inside. Not on the DNA level.

Teaching love, appreciation, acceptance, allowing to people without the capacity being activated, is like trying to teach a pig to fly.

You will only annoy the pig, and the pig will never fly. Why? Because the ability to fly is a capacity.

Capacities get activated two ways:

through extreme suffering

activated by a

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John Assaraf review, especially his Winning the inner game of money

Winning the inner game of money is the course John Assaraf is offering nowadays. Should you buy it? Will it suddenly enable you to make money in spite of yourself?

John Assaraf personal vibration: 150
truth value of what he teaches: 7%

Mindvalley is having a new launch, this time around they are promoting John Assaraf and his Law of Attraction class: The inner game of money.

Here is my issue with this whole idea:

What would happen if, by some miracle, your subconscious mind (I don’t believe in that, by the way) came around and you would see that you can make money, that you can be courageous, etc.

Do you think that if that happened you would be making money tomorrow?

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SOURCE: https://www.yourvibration.com/17886/john-assaraf-review/

Authenticity

authenticityI am a foreigner. I learned the English words, one by one, but I started to learn the being associated, the being meant by some words when I was 38 and started the work of transformation.

The first being word I looked into was generosity. I was still a beginner at distinguishing.

Distinguishing is the art of precision, what it is and what it isn’t. What it isn’t distinguishes something a lot better than trying to explain what it is. Interesting, isn’t it?

I had to learn the hard way what generosity isn’t, how “generosity” can and does make enemies of friends, destroys you in the process, while it builds your ego to sky high.

The second being word was authenticity. Not much can be found anywhere about that being, because it is near extinct, because authenticity flies in the face of what society wants of you: society wants you to suppress who you really are, and pretend to be part of the group… to want what “they” want, not what you want.

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What is a spiritual path? Can a phony teacher take you where you want to go?

dont-be-upset-by-the-results-you-didnt-getWhen people ask for their vibrational measure, often they ask me to suggest a path they could follow to raise their vibration. Most of the time this is simple, they need to take one of the liquid remedies to feel better first. But today I got a request like that, and this person was different from the usual requests. When I connected to her, I connected to empty… hm. I decided to use writing to get clear, and to work through it for myself, I wrote this article.

My path… a look back

I was just like you until a few years ago. I made decisions on what to buy, what to use, what to believe on an emotional basis.

If something sounded good, I wanted it.
If I was suffering from something: frustration, difficulties, pain, or lack of sleep, I was more likely to fall for a solution that sounded a good fit for my suffering.

And, of course, most things didn’t work.

I had a difficult time to trust anything or anyone, but I didn’t trust myself either, so I didn’t actually trust the inner voice that said: wrong way.

I had to get to a point where I could trust myself, or continue to pile up junk in my already crowded life, junk that I wanted, but it didn’t do what it promised to do.
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