When something changes… what made it change?

What makes the difference? When something starts to work: what made it suddenly work? Do you know? Chances are: you don’t. And neither do so-called scientists. It is a guess… the guess that makes them seem right. We are wrong 99% of the time. Why?

We do the same thing when something doesn’t work. We guess why… and we are wrong 99% of the time. Why?

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040 – Coaching with Sophie

040- Coaching with Sophie. Listen to episode 039 first. Sophie is interested in you growing, giving you ALL the power. She figures out the disconnect that holds you back. In contrast, most coaches withhold power, so that you keep coming back.

Sophie is guided by the echo… if you have boring-not-boring, or fun-not-fun as an echo to everything, then you need to expand your accurate vocabulary. Not-fun is not real. (Explained in episode 039) If that is your pivot, then Sophie starts working on that, to expand your vocabulary, and her job is to make it a little bit flexible. Change comes from what you do.

There is a saying: You take yourself wherever you go. What are you bringing from the past into your present and future? The inner witness can see it and it is ruthless. Most people can’t see their own attitude, so need it pointed out to them  by a mentor, coach or in a workshop like the Playground.

Anything you see, comes with words already attached. They come together, like the front and back of your hand. There is an  emotional and maybe  intellectual content with the words.  Get curious – what part is reality and what part is the speaking (the already-attached words).

Everything that happened to you, came with a meaning. If you want to change your future, apply for the Playground live workshops, Reclaim email based coaching or private coaching 1-2-1 sessions.

P.S: What Sophie does is unique in the world. Don’t wait around for ten years, because Sophie is old and you will regret missing out.

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040 – Coaching with Sophie

040- Coaching with Sophie. Listen to episode 039 first. Sophie is interested in you growing, giving you ALL the power. She figures out the disconnect that holds you back. In contrast, most coaches withhold power, so that you keep coming back.

Sophie is guided by the echo… if you have boring-not-boring, or fun-not-fun as an echo to everything, then you need to expand your accurate vocabulary. Not-fun is not real. (Explained in episode 039) If that is your pivot, then Sophie starts working on that, to expand your vocabulary, and her job is to make it a little bit flexible. Change comes from what you do.

There is a saying: You take yourself wherever you go. What are you bringing from the past into your present and future? The inner witness can see it and it is ruthless. Most people can’t see their own attitude, so need it pointed out to them  by a mentor, coach or in a workshop like the Playground.

Anything you see, comes with words already attached. They come together, like the front and back of your hand. There is an  emotional and maybe  intellectual content with the words.  Get curious – what part is reality and what part is the speaking (the already-attached words).

Everything that happened to you, came with a meaning. If you want to change your future, apply for the Playground live workshops, Reclaim email based coaching or private coaching 1-2-1 sessions.

P.S: What Sophie does is unique in the world. Don’t wait around for ten years, because Sophie is old and you will regret missing out.

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Tree of Knowledge path to life… Tree of Life path to Life. What’s the difference?

As people round the steps in the 67 step coaching program, as they begin the second cycle, they start to see new things, or they keep on seeing the same things…

Some see the things from memory. Comparing. “Knowing”. And some from actually seeing.

Step two (in the 67 steps) introduces the idea of the Selfish Gene, evolutionary stable strategy.

This point is where people diverge: one in the direction of the Tree of Knowledge, the other in the direction of the Tree of Life.

It is really amazing to watch them go, unaware of the other path.

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What life did you choose in the first hour of your day? The Backdrop

Every day works best if and when you have a context set in the first hour of the day. ((If you prefer the imprecise New Agey language of Esther Hicks, the original quote is here
Take the time to line up the Energy first, and action becomes inconsequential. If you don’t take the time to line up the Energy, if you don’t find the feeling place of what you’re looking for, not enough action in the world will make any difference.
She is trying to say the same thing. Trying.))

For most of you this is the same old, same old, because you put your attention to everything the same old way. I am not saying you should DO something different every morning, that is not what I am saying.

Doing different will not set the context, doing different will not change your beingness, doing different will not change what is the backdrop that all of life, everything that happens during that day, will happen.
Context, backdrop are beingness phenomena… They are like hunger.

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Most people experience stress and suffer from it. But you don’t have to, unless…

Most people experience stress and suffer from it
Stress is your body’s way of responding to any kind of demand or threat. When you feel threatened, your nervous system responds by releasing a flood of stress hormones, including adrenaline and cortisol, which rouse the body for emergency action.
You probably think that stress is the same for everyone, that stress is a physical reality, but it doesn’t seem to be that way.

There is no such thing as stress. Stress only exists when someone says so: it is a lot like most people we deal and struggle with in life: made up by humans. Not real…

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Self-image… the lies, the misunderstanding, the delusions… Can you change it?

Let us not confuse ourselves by failing to recognize that there are two kinds of self-confidence — one: a trait of personality and another: that comes from knowledge of a subject. It is no particular credit to the educator to help build the first without building the second. The objective of education is not the production of self-confident fools.” ~ Albert Bandura, Self Efficacy: The Exercise of Control, p.65

When I ask a person about their self-image, they have a different image of themselves consciously than on the first brain unconscious level.

Here are a few examples:Back in 1987 my conscious self-image, the one I promoted, was that I was very smart. My unconscious, automatic self-image was that I was a failure, or more precisely, a failure waiting to happen.

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