Are feelings and emotions the same? Would being able to tell them apart make you a happier, more accomplished person?

Are feelings and emotions the same? …or why all techniques of increasing Emotional Intelligence are b.s. and not effecting the level of happiness, the level of well-being of people who practice it. Same is true about the Emotional Guidance System of Abraham Hicks… b.s. and ineffective. Why? Because they are trying to change the fruits instead of the roots… Putting makeup on syphilitic lesions. ((In 1969, I was 22 years old, I was hanging out with a new friend, who was gay.

One day I got a phone call from the hospital ordering me to show up… I did. I was named as a person in the circle of a male prostitute who was infected with syphilis. He had been covering up the lesions on his face… but I could see them

I never had a sexual touch or anything with anyone in that group, but I was mentioned, so I was put on a mandatory 30-day high dose penicillin regimen. Mandatory. You miss it: you get jailed.
Now, if your emotions run high… consider that it is all to protect your “I”. Your self-image.
Mine are running high too… Telling this story seriously threatens my “wholesome” public image… But my life has a lot of unwholesome periods… Living such a variety of experiences has prepared me to be so darn effective at coaching people, or at seeing reality accurately.

Run if you must.

Embracing ugly as part of reality is what raises your vibration.)) Or pimples, if you are squeamish…

Feelings are clean. They do four simple things. Make you go for it, make you stop, direct you towards pleasure and away from pain… They are the seed level. The foundation.

Emotions are a construct on the top of them, created by words, created by marker feelings, and are a veritable mess.

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How to Develop Emotional Intelligence… what do psychologists say?

This article shows the state of official science for emotional intelligence.

Psychologists are not interested in the groundbreaking work developed in the books Feelings and Words…

Although when you can already recognize your feelings,  their inner dynamics, what they want you to do, what trap you my have stepped, unwittingly, the advice below is quite good.

Until then I don’t think it’s useful… Or may not be useful.

Even though emotional intelligence is really important to live a good life, to have good relationships, to get things done, to be well… for all of life.

OK, here is the article from Wikihow

Emotional intelligence (EQ) is the ability to tap into your emotions and use them to make your life better. Being in touch with your feelings allows you to manage stress levels and communicate effectively with other people, two skills that enhance your life both personally and professionally. Unlike IQ, which remains constant throughout your life, EQ can be developed and honed over time. See Step 1 to learn how to develop your emotional intelligence using techniques you can try right away.
Tapping Into Your Emotions aka Know what you are feeling
Note your emotional reactions to events throughout the day. It’s easy to put your feelings about what you experience throughout the day on the back burner. But taking time to acknowledge how you feel about experiences is essential to improving your EQ. If you ignore your feelings, you’re ignoring important information that has a big effect on your mindset and the way you behave. Start paying more attention to your feelings and connecting them to experiences.

For example, say you’re at work and you get cut off during a meeting. What emotions arise when this happens? On the other hand, how do you feel when you get praised for good work? Getting into the practice of naming your emotions as sadness, embarrassment, joy, contentment, or any other number of feelings will start raising your EQ right away.

Get in the habit of tapping into your emotions at certain times every day. What are your first emotions upon waking? Your last before you fall asleep?

Pay attention to your body. Instead of ignoring the physical manifestations of your emotions, start listening to them. Our minds and bodies are not separate; they affect each other quite deeply. You can raise your EQ by learning how to read physical cues that clue you in to what emotions you’re feeling. For example:

Stress might feel like a knot in your stomach, tight chest, or quick breathing.

Sadness might feel like waking up with slow, heavy limbs.

Joy, pleasure or nervousness might feel like butterflies in your stomach, a racing heart or increased energy.

Observe how your emotions and behavior are connected. When you feel strong emotions, how do you react? Tune into your gut responses to situations you face every day, instead of just reacting without any reflection. The more you understand what spurs your

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Emotional Intelligence: How learning what feelings are, what feelings do will help you live life as a human, instead of a puppet

Yesterday I was on the phone with a client.

Her soul correction is Fear/Fearless. In the conversation it was becoming obvious that she had read the book “Feelings”. I have been so excited about. So the conversation was on a more even footing that most of my conversations: she has been paying attention and recognizing at least some of the dynamics the feelings have, and has been managing her fear quite well.

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You have always wanted to get out of your head. You tried meditation, drugs, to no avail. Because the way out of the head is through the feelings… the body, where you feel the feelings. Your control center. Overriding the mind nearly 100% of the time.

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Does it matter whether this Universe with you in it is a hologram or not?

Does it matter whether this Universe with you in it is a hologram or not?

Great question, isn’t it? I am very proud of myself for asking it.

But if I get an answer, and I go “yes”, unless I find out what exactly I asked that was answered, I am as dumb and assuming as I was before I asked the question.

So, what way can it matter whether this/you are a hologram or not?

Emotionally
Physically
As a context… inside which we live this life of struggle…

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Beingness… the inner guidance that gives your behavior, actions, and ultimately your results

Not surprisingly, I hope, the difference between homo sapiens (thinking man) and Human Being is this elusive “thing”: beingness.
Beingness does not respond to words.

Beingness does not respond to words.
It doesn’t respond to force, not even to force of will.
It doesn’t really respond to feelings either.
And: IMPORTANT! is not created by doing

It is a whole different ball of wax. The secret is on the seed level… whatever that means, right? lol

You can give a lot to charity, but not be charitable. You can smile a lot, but not be happy. You can fake it but you will not make it… there is ONE of the many misguiding, misleading slogans.

You can observe it, and yet know nothing about it.

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The original sin… how you can stop paying, how can you stop suffering?

As I promised, the next step in creating your life that discouragement is only a rare guest in, instead of a tenant…

I am going to start with a somewhat gossipy story: my conversation with my mentor, Gyõzõ Margóczi, the brilliant engineer who wrote the books “Feelings” and “Words”.

I suggested that he thinks about developing a feedback device, that gives you valuable feedback on your feelings… because being in touch and understanding the dynamics of feelings is the hardest thing for a regular human.

And everyone is a regular human… 😦

His answer, pay attention, was that there must surely be a rich man, like Bill Gates, who would want to stand behind this project for the betterment and evolution of humanity.

And here, I am going to go politically incorrect… bear with me, it will be worth it.

I am a Jew, Margoczi is a Christian.

And in his approach and my approach at this point go in widely separate ways.

His approach: someone will want to do it…
My approach: if it is to be, it is up to me.

Now, why did I bring religion into this conversation?

Because religion is culture. It is the cultural approach to life.

Christians ask god to give.
Jews say, when they attempt something: With god’s help… meaning: I’ll do it with the support of the energy…

I know, it is said: help yourself and god will help you… but that is an afterthought. That is not how people live.

People live, moment to moment, that it is not up to them.

Jews, widely misunderstood, widely hated, take step after step, all the way to the end… hoping that god is with them. But they are doing all the heavy lifting, doing all the planning, all the talking… because the culture of Jews is: If it is to be, it is up to me.

Huge difference.

It is so, whether a Jew is religious or not. I am not, have never been.

Living in a Christian country, through osmosis, I learned that you can beg for help… the more you get it, the more you shift your cultural attitude from Judaism to Christianity: having your hands out.

And even though the mystical tradition of Judaism is called Kabbalah, which literally means Receiving, the teaching part of the Kabbalah teaches how to be in alignment with the energy, so you can have it on your side.

And whether the Universe is real, or whether it is a Hologram, whether there is a Creator or not… alignment with The Energy is the name of the game.

You stand still… you refuse to change, you refuse to generate, you are waiting: you are not in alignment.
You want only for yourself: you are not in alignment.
You mean harm for anyone: you are not in alignment.
You want what belongs to another: you are not in alignment.
You pretend, you lie, you manipulate, your force, you violate: you are not in alignment.
You have your hand out: you are not in alignment.

One of my Christian students took it on herself to say “If it is to be it is up to me” and went from nothing to having a

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Discouraged often?

My father was never discouraged. Not that he didn’t show it… he wasn’t discouraged. I remember him having doubts, whether something could work, but not discouraged. ((discouraged: having lost confidence or enthusiasm; disheartened.))

So what did he have that most of you don’t have?

Let’s see first what discourage is on the level of feelings, and feelings dynamics? Because unless we know how a feeling is born, at the end of what process, we have no idea how to counter it.

Discouragement is one of the most harmful feelings you can have, because whenever it happens, it makes you reduce the size of the box you live in… And remember? What we want is grow… bigger box… so discouragement works against what we are up to here.

So here is the inner dynamic:

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Headphone special offers… limited quantity. USA address only.

Have been thinking of getting something for yourself?

I have two limited special offers for you:

Deal #1:
Get get the whole 67 steps on a chip shipped to you with the best headphones I have ever owned

67 to Tai’s 67 steps program: $67 (I buy the program for you. You’ll have your own login… )
$10 for the chip
$12 for the headphones
$8 for shipping and handling in the USA…
Total: $97

This is what it cost… so let me make it a special: you can get any of my audios included. ($20-35 depending on what you choose.) Or if you qualify: get two weeks of free coaching in the 67 step coaching program.

All for a total of $97.

I am putting the stuff on a 4 gb of micro sd chip

Deal #2:
Get the Water Energizer audio prepared for energizing your water 24/7 on mp3 high quality headphones

$10 for the chip
$12 for the headphones
$8 for shipping and handling in the USA…
$60 for the Water energizer.
$30 Heaven on Earth
Take $20 off.
total: $100

Once I run out of the headphones, I close this special.

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Republished: When you are sick, your job is to be sick…

This article is from 2013… but it seems that a lot of people have influenza, especially in Europe, and therefore I am re-publishing this article…

The last few days have been extraordinary. Not good, not very bad, simply not my ordinary days.

I have had a heart-to-heart with my ego that didn’t want to allow me to grow business-wise. It was very interesting… you should watch the replay if you don’t know what I am talking about.

I have had a lot done, mostly stuff that was stressful, scary, new, and there was a lot of emotions around it.

The energy attacks resumed last Thursday, so I experience frequent debilitating pain.

I am tired. My eyes are hurting, my body is hurting, but the mind screams: “Soldier on…”

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The missing science so you can start mastering your beingness: the Real Kabbalah

Today’s “What’s the truth about you?” workshop is the first experiment to get to beingness through feelings.

The challenge, for the participant, is to accurately feel their feelings, and maybe even what the feeling wants them to do, the inner dynamics.

My experience is that despite what everyone teaches, you cannot get to what you want through words. But you can get to what you want through the feelings level and the through feelings level to the beingness level: the creative plane.

If the “Law of Attraction” or the “Law of Similars” has any water to hold, if being in energetic alignment with what you want does actually allow you to go for it, having, use it, keep it, then this is the most important skill you want to develop.

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