Emotional Intelligence: How learning what feelings are, what feelings do will help you live life as a human, instead of a puppet

Yesterday I was on the phone with a client.

Her soul correction is Fear/Fearless. In the conversation it was becoming obvious that she had read the book “Feelings”. I have been so excited about. So the conversation was on a more even footing that most of my conversations: she has been paying attention and recognizing at least some of the dynamics the feelings have, and has been managing her fear quite well.

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You have always wanted to get out of your head. You tried meditation, drugs, to no avail. Because the way out of the head is through the feelings… the body, where you feel the feelings. Your control center. Overriding the mind nearly 100% of the time.

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Does it matter whether this Universe with you in it is a hologram or not?

Does it matter whether this Universe with you in it is a hologram or not?

Great question, isn’t it? I am very proud of myself for asking it.

But if I get an answer, and I go “yes”, unless I find out what exactly I asked that was answered, I am as dumb and assuming as I was before I asked the question.

So, what way can it matter whether this/you are a hologram or not?

Emotionally
Physically
As a context… inside which we live this life of struggle…

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Beingness… the inner guidance that gives your behavior, actions, and ultimately your results

Not surprisingly, I hope, the difference between homo sapiens (thinking man) and Human Being is this elusive “thing”: beingness.
Beingness does not respond to words.

Beingness does not respond to words.
It doesn’t respond to force, not even to force of will.
It doesn’t really respond to feelings either.
And: IMPORTANT! is not created by doing

It is a whole different ball of wax. The secret is on the seed level… whatever that means, right? lol

You can give a lot to charity, but not be charitable. You can smile a lot, but not be happy. You can fake it but you will not make it… there is ONE of the many misguiding, misleading slogans.

You can observe it, and yet know nothing about it.

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The original sin… how you can stop paying, how can you stop suffering?

As I promised, the next step in creating your life that discouragement is only a rare guest in, instead of a tenant…

I am going to start with a somewhat gossipy story: my conversation with my mentor, Gyõzõ Margóczi, the brilliant engineer who wrote the books “Feelings” and “Words”.

I suggested that he thinks about developing a feedback device, that gives you valuable feedback on your feelings… because being in touch and understanding the dynamics of feelings is the hardest thing for a regular human.

And everyone is a regular human… 😦

His answer, pay attention, was that there must surely be a rich man, like Bill Gates, who would want to stand behind this project for the betterment and evolution of humanity.

And here, I am going to go politically incorrect… bear with me, it will be worth it.

I am a Jew, Margoczi is a Christian.

And in his approach and my approach at this point go in widely separate ways.

His approach: someone will want to do it…
My approach: if it is to be, it is up to me.

Now, why did I bring religion into this conversation?

Because religion is culture. It is the cultural approach to life.

Christians ask god to give.
Jews say, when they attempt something: With god’s help… meaning: I’ll do it with the support of the energy…

I know, it is said: help yourself and god will help you… but that is an afterthought. That is not how people live.

People live, moment to moment, that it is not up to them.

Jews, widely misunderstood, widely hated, take step after step, all the way to the end… hoping that god is with them. But they are doing all the heavy lifting, doing all the planning, all the talking… because the culture of Jews is: If it is to be, it is up to me.

Huge difference.

It is so, whether a Jew is religious or not. I am not, have never been.

Living in a Christian country, through osmosis, I learned that you can beg for help… the more you get it, the more you shift your cultural attitude from Judaism to Christianity: having your hands out.

And even though the mystical tradition of Judaism is called Kabbalah, which literally means Receiving, the teaching part of the Kabbalah teaches how to be in alignment with the energy, so you can have it on your side.

And whether the Universe is real, or whether it is a Hologram, whether there is a Creator or not… alignment with The Energy is the name of the game.

You stand still… you refuse to change, you refuse to generate, you are waiting: you are not in alignment.
You want only for yourself: you are not in alignment.
You mean harm for anyone: you are not in alignment.
You want what belongs to another: you are not in alignment.
You pretend, you lie, you manipulate, your force, you violate: you are not in alignment.
You have your hand out: you are not in alignment.

One of my Christian students took it on herself to say “If it is to be it is up to me” and went from nothing to having a

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Discouraged often?

My father was never discouraged. Not that he didn’t show it… he wasn’t discouraged. I remember him having doubts, whether something could work, but not discouraged. ((discouraged: having lost confidence or enthusiasm; disheartened.))

So what did he have that most of you don’t have?

Let’s see first what discourage is on the level of feelings, and feelings dynamics? Because unless we know how a feeling is born, at the end of what process, we have no idea how to counter it.

Discouragement is one of the most harmful feelings you can have, because whenever it happens, it makes you reduce the size of the box you live in… And remember? What we want is grow… bigger box… so discouragement works against what we are up to here.

So here is the inner dynamic:

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Headphone special offers… limited quantity. USA address only.

Have been thinking of getting something for yourself?

I have two limited special offers for you:

Deal #1:
Get get the whole 67 steps on a chip shipped to you with the best headphones I have ever owned

67 to Tai’s 67 steps program: $67 (I buy the program for you. You’ll have your own login… )
$10 for the chip
$12 for the headphones
$8 for shipping and handling in the USA…
Total: $97

This is what it cost… so let me make it a special: you can get any of my audios included. ($20-35 depending on what you choose.) Or if you qualify: get two weeks of free coaching in the 67 step coaching program.

All for a total of $97.

I am putting the stuff on a 4 gb of micro sd chip

Deal #2:
Get the Water Energizer audio prepared for energizing your water 24/7 on mp3 high quality headphones

$10 for the chip
$12 for the headphones
$8 for shipping and handling in the USA…
$60 for the Water energizer.
$30 Heaven on Earth
Take $20 off.
total: $100

Once I run out of the headphones, I close this special.

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Republished: When you are sick, your job is to be sick…

This article is from 2013… but it seems that a lot of people have influenza, especially in Europe, and therefore I am re-publishing this article…

The last few days have been extraordinary. Not good, not very bad, simply not my ordinary days.

I have had a heart-to-heart with my ego that didn’t want to allow me to grow business-wise. It was very interesting… you should watch the replay if you don’t know what I am talking about.

I have had a lot done, mostly stuff that was stressful, scary, new, and there was a lot of emotions around it.

The energy attacks resumed last Thursday, so I experience frequent debilitating pain.

I am tired. My eyes are hurting, my body is hurting, but the mind screams: “Soldier on…”

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The missing science so you can start mastering your beingness: the Real Kabbalah

Today’s “What’s the truth about you?” workshop is the first experiment to get to beingness through feelings.

The challenge, for the participant, is to accurately feel their feelings, and maybe even what the feeling wants them to do, the inner dynamics.

My experience is that despite what everyone teaches, you cannot get to what you want through words. But you can get to what you want through the feelings level and the through feelings level to the beingness level: the creative plane.

If the “Law of Attraction” or the “Law of Similars” has any water to hold, if being in energetic alignment with what you want does actually allow you to go for it, having, use it, keep it, then this is the most important skill you want to develop.

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On the other side of pain, on the other side of unpleasant… How firewalking is an analogy to life…

Firewalking is the act of walking barefoot over a bed of hot embers or stones.
Firewalking has been practiced by many people and cultures in all parts of the world, with the earliest known reference dating back to Iron Age India – c. 1200 BC. It is often used as a rite of passage, as a test of an individual’s strength and courage, or in religion as a test of one’s faith.
One of the buzz-words Tai uses in several of his steps is “innovate yourself out of” the trouble you are in… the stuck states, the problem, etc. It’s Jeff Bezos’ favorite method of growth… Jeff Bezos of Amazon.com fame…

I have never met a person, I have never met a student who even remotely could imagine this accurately, including Tai.
Our feeling machine and our thought machine, combined and individually, try to get us out of situations that are unpleasant.
This is why your TLB score is so low… because the machines combined with a faulty map of reality, narrow and short cone of vision result in a knee jerk reactions machine… aka low TLB score.

So when I say: innovate yourself out of a problem, you, in your knee jerk way, know that it is moving away from the problem, it is moving backwards or sideways, but definitely away from the problem.

Aikido teaches the opposite: move in and with the problem, instead of resisting it, instead of trying to fight it, move with it.

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Ignorance is not bliss. Knowledge is not power. But you can be happy on a sinking ship of a humanity that is annihilating itself

The paradigm we live it has no access to happiness… no bridge, no path, no door… We are locked into unhappiness
I just hung up with my friend from university. ((Budapest Technical University, Architecture School, Class of 1971.)) Frenzied gossiping about Trump and the hopelessness of the future… Just like we would have done during the Second World War… An activity (gossiping, complaining, blaming, etc.) that will make no difference. But what will? What could?

I have to admit, this conversation lead to a turning point for me… and if and when I turn about-face, I can lead you to do the same… The turning wasn’t instant. But it is done. I am happy again.
This is what I learned in the conversation and after… when I reflected on it:
The United States government is not the only group of people who now suppresses other groups of people.

Many of the Earth’s real and shadow governments are celebrating Trumps’s presidency and his new decrees moving back the world decades, maybe even centuries of achievements in the area of human rights.

Nationalism was on the flag of Hitler… because people go bonkers when they think something threatens their country: they take that personally. (That their own behavior threatens their country: they are not aware of that.))

The groups “governing” many countries is of the opinion that some people are more people than others, and some people are more entitled to be heard, more entitled to live, than others.

Oppression of the opposition, oppression and exploitation of women, oppression and exploitation of people different than that group…

People with money, people who are the movers and shakers behind the visible figurehead…

Trump is a puppet… I am re-reading the 1996 book by Neal Stephenson, Interface. It’s a novel. It’s well written. And it’s prophetic… and Neal Stephenson is prophetic most of the time.

I don’t expect my readers to agree, or even understand what I am talking about. If you do: I am happy. But I don’t expect you to. Why? Because you can’t.
History is repeating itself… because in the past 200,000 years humanity hasn’t evolved… You are on the same level of consciousness as your Savannah living ancestor… maybe lower.
What makes people act in predictable ways, even if it is against their well-being, is a sign that we don’t understand what makes us do what we do. That our knowledge about ourselves is sadly lagging behind other sciences… and is on the level of rune reading, tea leaf reading, not a science at all.

Having elevated thinking and thinking about thinking has been the problem. It is like observing a moving vehicle and trying to intuit, from the way the driver drives it, from how it moves, what moves it… without ever learning anything about engines, carburetors, and gear-shifts. You watch the visible and make up stories about what’s under the hood… Pitifully inaccurate.

Underestimating your feelings and forgetting to notice your

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