One of the things people have a difficulty with, in my experience, is creating a vision for their lives.
When I ask what they want, what they are up to, they draw a blank.
And even when and if they have some answer, it is not something that even if they got it, would make them happy, fulfilled, joyful, connected, loved, etc.
Every aspect of you has a different ‘agenda’…
The Selfish Gene
the soul/spirit or whatever you want to call it, the high minded aspect of you
these all want something different… and you, who you consider yourself to be: you are like the person in the middle of the ball game where the ball is thrown in a circle, past you… and you are always left without a ball.