Did you get stuck, ontologically, at a 3-year old’s level, and you are still behaving like a 3-year old child
Ontology is being science.
It looks at the grounds of your being. Here are a few examples: “I am an object in the world of objects.” “I am not free to be myself!” “There is something wrong and it needs to be fixed!” “Don’t tell me what to do!” “I already know!” “It’s mine!” “I am a girl” “I am not loved” “Life is dangerous” “I can’t count on anyone” “I am worthless” ((Just like soil, your beingness is layered… rock, limestones, sand, etc… Nothing is as simple as that. And nevertheless all troubles come from your deepest grounds of being.))
Your life is built on the grounds of your being… like a house. You don’t like your life? Examine your grounds of being: the issue is there.