This article will try to get to the heart of the matter of who you are, what is your self that you are so desperately missing.
For those of you that just want the bottom line, who you are is what you say yes to and what you say no to. A mix… always.
You are often the last person to know yourself. Because, for the most part, your justification and explanation, in your mind, is as good as replaces what you said yes to or no to.
Because you lie.
The longer than the bottom line answer is almost the same, with some additions.