Kamikaze or the Cowardly Lion
New distinction: there is reality, and then there is the map of reality ((in your nervous system, feelings and the word level thinking (symbols and marker feeling) )).
If this sounds complicated, it is because it is.
But it is built of simple linear elements, so we can look at each linear element, and with enough examined, start seeing the three-dimensional picture.
Your map of reality is vastly out of alignment with the actual reality.